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[dropcap]I[/dropcap] am usually the first to say everything positive about Integration and how it is a fundamental concept. But sometimes, it feels like all the doors to a smooth Integration just gets shut in your face.

Never mind me though, I’m just slightly ranting but on a greater note, I’ve decided to make use of my library card this summer. I’m done with week one of the coursera so ist time to face my deutsch books and get some history lessons and living words in.

Jedoch , I heard the news on the radio about how School Administrations are imploring female students to stop wearing short shorts to School. Now this I totally agree with cos good gawd, who the bloody hell started the short shorts trend? Ist totally not nice at all. Who needs to see parts of your buttocks when you aren’t any where close to a beach or a Schwimmbad? But my anger isn’t that they want students to stop wearing said attire, but the why. The reason being that it helps to discourage rape especially with the refugees coming into the country plus the Moslems.

In my opinion, rape has nothing to do with what you are wearing. You can put on the most dreadful sack and look like a scholarly mam and a man would still try to rape you if he is an animal.

In Nigeria when women are raped, 99% of the time, they have on Jeans sweeping the floors and tshirts fit for humpty dumpty but as ignorant as a lot of people are, they associate rape with mode of dressing which is completely wrong. Take India for example. The high percentage of rape should tell you that it is more about control and of course ignorant animal behaviour than what the victim has on.

Like i said, I completely agree with Schools encouraging better dress sense since we know teenagers would drive you bonkers and whose mum lets her leave the house in drawers calling them Jeans? Good lawd, in Nigeria you won’t even dare. The fear of what your mum would do to your skin would drive the thought away. Don’t get me wrong, there are ppl who have succeeded where others have failed but at a point you have to look yourself in the mirror. Yes it is warm and sticky and everyone should wear a bikini, but hey no one is.

But don’t bloody tell me I shouldn’t put on what I want to so I don’t innocently tempt an idiotic animal to not rape me because he can see a mound of flesh from my chest or a peek of butt cheek. Why should looking there bring on ideas of rape?

If religious fanatics, christians and Moslems alike do not like the culture of a Country they are hoping to integrate into, it is very simple, leave to another place that can contain your beliefs without forcing it on others. Don’t come in here to make life uncomfortable for the locals because you can’t deal with their ways. It is wrong and completely unfair.

There simply should be no reason why rape would be condoned. It is a man’s world does not mean his brain has to ruled by his penis.

On brighter notes, I may be attending my first event. It’s nothing fancy but I’m all hyped about it cos I get to introduce my handmade accessories!

Plus a lot of make up tips shall be shared. Ich habe keine Ahnung wie man make up kann aber nichts kann mich stoppen! Ich werde mehr weiblich sein!

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  • Rape should not be condoned, in any shape, form or fashion. Great thoughts and hopefully the messaged will continue to be pushed out.
    Great work, and all the best with the event!

    • thank you and i hope so too. we shouldnt just be teaching women how to protect themselves, we should teach how….not to rape….

  • Adaeze Chinanuekpere Ezenwa

    You’ve raised a beautiful point, how can you expect a country to adjust its ways for you? Reminds me of a story of a Canadian town whose Muslims wanted to stop the cooking of pork and other pig products like bacon in the high school’s cafeteria. The mayor told them a few home truths about intergration.

  • i heard about that too and completely forgot it until you mentioned it. would have been a great piece to add to the post. People seem to convieniently forget the concept of integration

  • Hhhmmmnnnn… So Breasts are just a mound of flesh huh?!… heheheh Never really saw it in that manner oh! Biko! i have to refute that **Wears Straight face.. They arent just Heaped up flesh oH biko! heheheheh In my confused 23 years 8 months 2 days eyes yeah Egbon.. Breasts are heavenly… They are divinely divine… I mean they make me sing that Halllelujah heavenly hymn with them glowing in my eyes like gold.. heheheh.. hehehe That being said.. Who angered my favourite Egbon?! **Wears Straight face.. **Adjusts belt.. then **Enters Craze man state… SomeboRRy hold me oh! SomeboRRy Hold me before i tear someboRRy apart.. Hold me now oh or!!!!.. hhehehhehe Okay! Then pours cold water on my hot head.. Calm down Nonso Duru.. Breath Baba.. Breathe.. hehehe

    You see yeah Ausserehl.. I dont think there is a justification for rape.. Gbam! That i totally agree with you on! But Egbon the world is at a strange place.. and i say that without mincing words.. I mean everything has gone Bunkers (lemme speak Onyibo that i dont understand) There are crazy folks out there.. and then the Dress sense of a woman in more ways than not prompts rape.. Truth is we men are moved by what we see ( me especially).. And there is a more likely probability that a woman exposing her BoRRy parts will be raped faster than one wearing a Hijab or Jalabia.. Its simple as that… I for one think that their reason is justifiable.. Not everyone is sane in our world Phoenix.. I mean a man woke up one day and said! fuck it! I wanna be a woman.. and the world praises him.. I mean.. Its beRRa safe than sorry Egbon.. Not everyone is sane… I dont justify rape nor will i ever do it.. But hey! ladies need to understand that we guys are different from y’all.. Sex is a big deal for us… Men are from mars. Women are from Jupiter…

    • I don´t agree with you when you say dress sense prompts rape. That is the kind of thinking we have been programmed to adopt and that right there is the problem. True, men are mostly moved by what they see but that doesn´t mean because she is showing skin means she is begging to be raped and i also disagree that an exposed body is bound to be raped more than a fully clothed one. That as i said is the type of idea that haS been saved into our brains. But i totally agree that not every one in this world is sane. That is just the gawd awful truth and some hard truth being the supposedly sane one praise the not sane ones for…being their true self…whatever the hell that means! And i used to think girls were from Venus

  • I completely agree! Instead of telling me how to dress more modestly, how to not appear like an easy slut, how about you educate these growing boys about women’s rights!? I mean, rape is sick and it is about power it has very little to do with how you are dressed. Don’t get me wrong, I feel a woman should dress modestly but for other reasons. There is nothing wrong with showing skin but there’s always a fashionable and classy way to do it. Walking outside bucket naked is probably not the way to go ☺ In the end a woman should AT ALL TIMES be in control of her own body (what she’s doing to it, what’s happening to it, etc).

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  • that is exactly what i keep trying to say. while teaching our girlds about protection against rapists, teach our boys and ´men the concept of the word consent. if a girl says no it doesnt mean anything else but no. if she has on revealing clothes that show too much skin, it isnt an Invitation to rape.

  • I also agree with what there doing BUT as you’ve mentioned that won’t stop crime, a thief doesn’t have to be in a hoody to steal so the outer appearance is just an excuse to avoid the real problem. Maybe more needs to do to the men who do the raping than making excuses for why the female was raped.

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